This can absolutely be used as a shampoo for a 3- and 5-year-old, and it’s actually a really beautiful fit for their age.
This gently cleans light to moderate dirt + oil, Keeps scalp balanced (pH ~5.5), and won’t strip natural oils, which means healthier hair long-term. But it also has removed many of the harsh detergents and coatings found in most wash systems, so it may not remove any heavy buildup in a single wash. This formula DOES account for hard water however, due to our area. If you don’t have that, you can skip the sodium citrate.
You may want MORE cleansing if they have sunscreen in their har or some other product buildup. You can just rinse twice with this, or once with a tallow soap or other. As a shampoo, let sit 20-30 seconds before rinsing. If hair feels tangly, can add 1-2 drops of apricot oil to ends of hair AFTER bath. This is more than a shampoo, more like a scalp supporting system.
Exception: if your child just went swimming, you will want to RINSE hair first, then may want to use a stronger shampoo (like our swimmers shampoo bar), then still wash body with this cleanser to restore ph balance, and even rehydrate their scalp.
Ingredients:
Distilled water — 276 g (55.2%)
Aloe vera juice — 100 g (20%)
Sodium citrate — 4 g (0.8%) (stir until fully dissolved)
Glycerin — 15 g (3%)
Xanthan gum — 2 g (0.4%) (let hydrate fully)
Colloidal oatmeal — 10 g (2%)
Coco glucoside — 50 g (10%)
Decyl glucoside — 40 g (8%)
Polyquaternium-10 — 1 g (0.2%)
Panthenol — 5 g (1%)
Geogard ECT — 4–5 g (0.8–1%)
Citric acid solution → pH 5.3–5.6
đź§´ PROCESS (SHORT VERSION)
Water + aloe + sodium citrate (warm, dissolve)
Add glycerin + xanthan slurry → hydrate
Add oatmeal
Add surfactants slowly
Add PQ-10 (optional)
Cool → add panthenol
Add preservative (≤105°F)
Adjust pH
Directions:
DO NOT EXCEED 110°F (43°C) at any point (protect aloe, oatmeal and surfactants)
🧪 IDEAL WORK RANGE: 85–100°F (30–38°C) for most of process
Water phase, Heat to ~95–110°F (35–43°C) (warm, not hot)
Distilled water — 276 g (55.2%)
Aloe vera juice — 100 g (20%)
Sodium citrate — 4 g (0.8%) (stir until fully dissolved)
Pre-disperse, Same temp range (95–110°F)
Glycerin — 15 g (3%)
Xanthan gum — 2 g (0.4%), (let hydrate fully)
Add to water phase, 👉 Let hydrate 10–20 minutes
Soothing
Colloidal oatmeal — 10 g (2%), add and mix until smooth
Cleansing, Keep temp: 85–100°F. Stir Gently (DO NOT WHISK, you don’t want foam)
Decyl glucoside — 40 g (8%) (add first)
Coco glucoside — 50 g (10%)
Conditioning (NEW – optional but great)
Polyquaternium-10 — 1 g (0.2%)
pre-dispersed (like with xanthan), Mix with a little glycerin, then mix thoroughly
Cool-down, to Temp: ≤105°F (40°C)
Panthenol — 5 g (1%)
Preservation (choose ONE): CRITICAL TEMP: ≤105°F (40°C)
Option A (if aloe contains ascorbic acid): Geogard ECT — 4–5 g (0.8–1%)
OR Option B (your system consistency): NeoDefend / Geogard Ultra — 5.5 g (1.1%)
If using NeoDefend → confirm aloe has no added ascorbic acid
But do not use if you have hard water (we put in a vitamin c tablet and this would conflict and cause possible stability issues with Neodefend)
NeoDefend + ascorbic acid → ⚠️ potential stability issues
pH Adjustment (LAST STEP, if needed)
Test pH
Adjust with Citric acid solution → pH 5.3–5.6
Best tool: pH strips (range 4–7)
If pH is TOO HIGH (common)
Add: Citric acid solution (50%)
How to make:
1 part citric acid powder
1 part distilled water
How to adjust:
Add drop by drop
Mix thoroughly
Re-test after each addition
👉 Go slow — tiny changes matter
If pH is TOO LOW (rare)
Add a tiny amount of sodium bicarbonate solution
Post-bath (important for hard water homes)
Even with a perfect cleanser, hard water can leave skin slightly dry.
After bath:
Use apricot oil OR light balm
While skin is still damp
This seals in moisture and offsets mineral dryness.
đź’ˇ Optional Upgrade (Simple + Powerful)
If swimming is frequent:
Add a quick pre-rinse:
1 cup water + pinch of vitamin C powder
Pour over hair before washing
👉 This neutralizes chlorine instantly
(You’re already doing this in the bath — which is excellent)
👶👦 How it behaves across ages
Age / Performance
Newborn (0–12 mo): Still safe, just use less + less often
1–3 years: Excellent for body + light hair
3–5 years: Now strong enough for hair + dirt
Adults: Gentle daily cleanser, especially for sensitive skin
đź§´ LABEL (INCI FORMAT)
Use this for your bottle:
Ingredients (INCI):
Aqua (Water), Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Juice, Coco-Glucoside, Decyl Glucoside, Glycerin, Avena Sativa (Oat) Kernel Flour (Colloidal Oatmeal), Panthenol, Polyquaternium-10, Xanthan Gum, Gluconolactone (and) Sodium Benzoate (or Benzyl Alcohol (and) Salicylic Acid (and) Glycerin (and) Sorbic Acid*)
*Use this second preservative listing only if using Geogard ECT
🏷️ FRONT LABEL (CLEAN + COMPELLING)
NEWBORN & FAMILY GENTLE WASH
pH-Balanced • Tear-Free • Fragrance-Free
For newborns, children, and sensitive skin
Hair + Body • Minimal, effective cleansing
100 ml / 250 ml
Rational Body | Danville, CA
🏷️ BACK LABEL (SHORT VERSION)
A true physiological cleanser designed to respect the skin barrier.
This formula cleans without stripping, supports the acid mantle (pH ~5.5), and is gentle enough for newborn skin.
No fragrance. No essential oils. No harsh detergents.
Directions:
Apply a small amount to wet skin or hair.
Gently cleanse and rinse.
Use 1–3× weekly for newborns, more frequently as needed for older children.
Patch test recommended.
🌿 PRODUCT PAGE (THIS SELLS IT)
Newborn & Family Gentle Wash
The cleanser that grows with your child
Most baby washes are either:
too weak to clean once kids get older
or too harsh for delicate newborn skin
This does both—by doing less, better.
WHAT IT IS
A pH-balanced (5.5) physiological cleanser designed to support—not disrupt—the skin barrier.
Built with ultra-gentle plant-based cleansers (glucosides), soothing oatmeal, and barrier-supporting humectants, this formula cleans effectively without triggering dryness, irritation, or dependency cycles.
WHY IT’S DIFFERENT
🌿 Cleans without stripping
No sulfates. No foaming agents designed for bubbles over function.
Just mild, effective cleansing that leaves skin soft—not tight.
🌿 Truly fragrance-free
No “hidden fragrance” or parfum blends.
Nothing that interferes with hormones, lungs, or sensitive skin.
🌿 Built for real life stages
One bottle replaces multiple products:
Newborn (0–12 months): gentle, minimal cleansing
Toddlers (1–3): body + light hair
Kids (3–5+): strong enough for hair, dirt, and play
Adults: perfect for sensitive skin or daily use
WHAT’S INSIDE (AND WHY)
Coco + Decyl Glucoside — ultra-mild cleansers derived from plants
Colloidal Oatmeal — soothes irritation, supports skin barrier
Aloe Vera — hydrates and calms
Glycerin — maintains moisture balance
Panthenol (B5) — supports skin repair
Polyquaternium-10 — gentle detangling for soft, manageable hair
Every ingredient has a purpose. Nothing extra.
WHAT’S NOT INSIDE
No fragrance (synthetic or natural)
No essential oils
No sulfates (SLS/SLES)
No parabens or phthalates
No silicones
No unnecessary fillers
HOW TO USE
Newborns:
Use 1–3× per week. A little goes a long way.
Toddlers & Kids:
Use as needed for body and hair.
Tip:
If hair starts to feel dry or tangled (ages 3+), pair with a light conditioner or detangler.
THE PHILOSOPHY
Skin—especially newborn skin—is not meant to be managed aggressively.
It’s meant to be supported.
This formula respects:
the developing skin barrier
the natural microbiome
and the reality that less is often more
You don’t need a different product for every stage.
You need one that understands all of them.