What pregnant skin needs most
Elasticity support (lipids that integrate, not coat)
Occlusion that breathes (prevents TEWL without trapping heat)
Low inflammatory load
Hormone neutrality
Slip (for daily massage without drag)
Ingredients that truly shine here
Tallow – biomimetic, repairs barrier
Lanolin – unmatched elasticity + TEWL reduction
Cocoa butter – structural, antioxidant, firmness
Mango butter – softness without clogging
Apricot kernel oil – gentle, high oleic
Rosehip oil – yes, but low (supports dermal repair)
Squalane – optional, tiny amount for glide (belly only is fine)
Ingredients to be cautious with in a pregnancy oil
High coconut oil → not ideal here
Heavy essential oils → skip entirely
Too much beeswax → drags, traps heat
Ingredients, 400g total batch
Percentages
Tallow 38%
Lanolin 18%
Cocoa butter 12%
Mango or sheabutter 10%
Apricot kernel oil 15%
Rosehip oil 4%
Squalane 2%
Vitamin E 0.5%
Base Fats (Structure + Barrier)
Grass-fed tallow – 38%, 152 g
Lanolin – 18%, 72 g
Cocoa butter – 12%, 48 g
Mango butter – 10%, 40 g
Why:
Tallow + lanolin = elasticity + repair
Cocoa gives structure and antioxidant protection
Mango keeps it soft and non-waxy
Liquid Oils (Slip + Repair)
Apricot kernel oil (infused) – 15%, 60 g
Rosehip oil – 4%, 16 g
Squalane (olive-derived) – 2%, 8 g
Why:
Apricot = gentle, nourishing, pregnancy-safe
Rosehip supports dermal remodeling (stretch marks)
Squalane improves glide without greasiness
(Coffee-infused squalane is fine here if mild; otherwise reserve for face.)
Antioxidant
Vitamin E (mixed tocopherols) – 0.5%, 40 drops
This 400g batch makes about 3 jars (4oz) plus extra, or 4x 15 g deluxe minis
800 g makes 7 jars
1200 g makes 10 jars (4 oz each)
If making for a baby balm, use even fewer ingredients:
Baby Balm (not whipped) — Best Possible Ingredients
Grass-fed tallow (primary base)
Cocoa butter OR mango butter (structure)
Tiny amount of beeswax (stay-put protection)
Optional: very small amount of olive or apricot oil
Vitamin E (low, for shelf life)
for:
diaper area (non-rash)
cheeks in cold air
cradle cap (light use)
dry hands / feet
post-bath moisture
Winter Hand Salve
Grass-fed tallow (still the hero)
Shea butter (this is where shea shines)
Beeswax (a little more than baby balm)
Optional: lanolin (low)
Vitamin E
Hands are exposed to:
wind
soap
friction
temperature swings
They need more grip and protection than a belly does.
but for hands that crack open, lanolin wins. Lanolin is especially helpful for hands that crack from water and soap — it helps restore flexibility so skin can heal instead of splitting again
Perfect Dish-Hands Salve
Tallow: barrier repair
Lanolin: elasticity + healing
Shea butter: toughness + longevity
Tiny beeswax: optional, for grip