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Jul 15 Chapter 5: The Art of Simplicity

Chapter 5 — The Art of Simplicity

Recipe 5: Perfect Roasted Vegetables (The Sheet-Pan That Saves Weeknights)

Real Life, Real Food

Let's face it: changing food patterns is HARD. Life today can be so freaking hard.

Most of us work long hours, squeeze in a workout if we're lucky, then come home and have to figure out food. I wish we all had a wife to come home to—me included! The truth is, the modern family was built on the assumption that somebody works while somebody else keeps the home ready, puts food on the table, and shuttles kids to activities and back.

But in today's reality, both parents work in most American families. As of 2024, about two-thirds (66.5%) of married-couple families with children have both parents employed. This has become the norm over the last five decades—since the mid-1970s—as dual-earner households replaced the single-breadwinner model.

We literally cannot do it the way our parents did it. And they didn't face the predatory marketing we face—personalized ads on our phones, algorithmic feeds designed to hijack attention, the sheer volume of stimulation bombarding our kids in what's becoming known as the most anxious generation.

Lucky us as parents, trying to figure out how to manage that while also keeping everyone fed with real food.

So this chapter is for that kind of human. The one who's out of the house 6am to 6pm. The one who doesn't want to cook after a long day but knows takeout isn't the answer. The one who needs something simple, repeatable, and actually delicious.

The Sheet-Pan Revelation

When I was working my way through my detox program while holding down a demanding engineering job, one meal saved me: a sheet pan of roasted broccoli and chicken.

Honestly, I would have been happy with just the broccoli part.

Don't think you like broccoli? I'm not talking about sad, stinky, raw broccoli that nobody touches on party platters. I'm talking about roasted-until-the-edges-are-crispy, covered-in-good-oil-and-salted-to-perfection, caramelized-and-crunchy broccoli.

Don't let anyone tell you it's "cooked too much"—at least not yet. The first step is liking the food, then you can learn to eat it more raw to preserve certain nutrients. But I like my broccoli pretty dark. Mix in some garlic, and... sheesh.

Even ten-year-old girls admit to me with wide eyes at potlucks: "This is ACTUALLY GOOD!"

And that's even without the chicken.

Add a breast of chicken right in the center of the pan, and those juices seep into each floret, creating something divine. This is the kind of meal I could eat every day. I honestly think this is the plate that made my husband fall in love with me.

We were sitting in his apartment and I made us a little snack. I had just a couple heads of broccoli, took less than 5 minutes to prep, tossed it with olive oil and salt, and threw it in the oven. Done.

Cook at 375°F for about 45 minutes, checking regularly toward the end to get it to the exact level of crisp you like. This is not soggy, stinky broccoli. This smells divine roasting in the oven—with or without the chicken.

The Quality Foundation: Oil and Salt Matter

Make sure your vegetables are fully covered in a good oil—the kind we talked about in Chapter 3. I actually really like the flavor of olive oil here, but if you use extra-virgin olive oil, keep the temperature at or below 400°F. If you want to go hotter, switch to avocado oil with its higher smoke point.

I put the broccoli in a large bowl, drizzle with enough oil to see a little shimmer, then add a few generous sprinkles of salt. I have UNDERdone the oil and do not like it as much—so don't be shy.

Some might say the oil and salt are "too much," but the quality matters. Again.

The Salt Truth

Some salts have scarily high levels of contaminants. Lead Safe Mama has tested many brands and recommends a few trusted sources—the Jacobsen Salt Co. from Oregon has both flaky and finely ground options that she's verified.

And here's the thing: the flavor of salt matters too. If you don't like the taste of an ingredient on its own, you won't like how it tastes in a dish.

Do a little taste test. Try a pinch on your finger. Or get really good crusty bread, a quality olive oil, and dip it in a few different salts. Or try them on a good steak. (Hey, we don't have to skimp on the taste test!)

Pink Himalayan salt is full of trace minerals
Flaky sea salt is beautiful finishing salt for meats or even cookies
Finely ground salt is great for baking and mixing into dishes

Cheap table salt can actually block absorption of water into cells, while good mineral-rich salt does the opposite—it helps your body lock moisture in properly, keeping you hydrated at the cellular level.

Do your research (or follow mine). Invest in quality salt. It's one of those small upgrades that changes everything.

The Broccoli Science (Why Timing Matters)

Here's something crucial: the benefits of broccoli can be diminished if you rush the process.

Broccoli contains compounds called glucosinolates. When you chop or crush the florets, an enzyme called myrosinase converts these into sulforaphane—a powerful compound that supports detoxification pathways and cellular health.

But here's the catch: this transformation takes about 4-10 minutes. If you chop the broccoli and immediately throw it into high heat, you deactivate the enzyme before the conversion happens, and you lose those benefits.

So here's the protocol:

Chop your broccoli into florets
Let it sit for 5-10 minutes while you prep other things
Then toss with oil and salt and roast

If you're cooking broccoli that's already been heated (like frozen or pre-steamed), you can add back some of that enzyme activity by tossing the cooked broccoli with a pinch of mustard powder—it's rich in myrosinase and helps restore sulforaphane formation.

Small detail. Big impact.

The Garlic Game-Changer

If you want to take this to the next level, add 4-6 whole cloves of garlic, smashed but still in their papery skins.

Fresh garlic has its own activation magic. When you crush or chop garlic, you trigger the formation of allicin—a compound with antimicrobial and anti-inflammatory properties. But just like broccoli, this process needs time.

Chop your garlic and let it sit for 10-15 minutes before adding heat. This allows the allicin to fully form. If you throw garlic into high heat immediately after chopping, you deactivate the enzyme that creates allicin.

Yes, the pre-chopped stuff in jars is convenient. And if that's what gets you to use garlic at all, fine—just get the kind in a glass jar, not plastic. But fresh garlic tastes brighter, packs more nutritional punch, and takes maybe one extra minute.

And if you're sick? Eat a whole raw clove of garlic. Yes, it's intense. But it's pure medicine. If you want something less sharp, mix crushed garlic with honey in a small jar and let it sit for a few weeks. It becomes a sweet, pungent immune-boosting syrup you can spoon straight or stir into tea.

Recipe 5: Perfect Roasted Vegetables (The Weeknight Classic)

This is a template, not a rigid recipe. You can rotate vegetables, change up the protein, triple the batch for a potluck. The idea is to have something repeatable but flexible—the same comforting structure with endless variation.

Ingredients (Serves 2-4):

The Vegetables:

1 large head (or 2 medium heads) broccoli, chopped into bite-sized florets (about 12 oz / 340g)
Or any combination: Brussels sprouts (halved), cauliflower, carrots, sweet potatoes, bell peppers, red onions, butternut squash

The Foundation:

2-3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil (or avocado oil for higher heat)
½-1 teaspoon good sea salt (be generous!)
½ teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
4-6 cloves garlic, smashed (optional but recommended)

Optional Protein:

1-2 chicken breasts, patted dry, lightly oiled and salted
Or: salmon fillets, grass-fed steak, pastured pork chops

Optional Finish:

¼ cup grated Parmesan
Fresh herbs (parsley, basil, cilantro)
Red pepper flakes
Extra squeeze of lemon

The Transformation:

1) Preheat and prep
Heat oven to 375-400°F. Line a large sheet pan with parchment paper. If you're using extra-virgin olive oil, stay at or below 400°F. For higher heat roasting, use avocado oil.

2) Activate the broccoli
Chop broccoli into similar-sized florets. Let them sit for 5-10 minutes while you prep everything else. This activates the enzymes that create sulforaphane.

3) Activate the garlic
If using garlic, smash the cloves with the side of your knife and let them sit for 10-15 minutes. This allows allicin to form.

4) Build the flavor
Put broccoli (and any other vegetables) in a large bowl. Drizzle with enough olive oil to create a light shimmer when tossed—don't be shy. Add salt, pepper, and lemon juice. Add the rested garlic cloves. Toss everything with your hands, feeling the oil coat each piece evenly.

5) Arrange for success
Spread vegetables in a single layer on your sheet pan—don't crowd them. Crowding creates steam instead of caramelization, and you'll end up with soggy vegetables instead of crispy ones.

If adding chicken, nestle the breast(s) in the center of the pan so the juices baste the vegetables as everything cooks.

6) Roast with patience
Slide the pan into the oven. Resist the urge to check too often—let the heat do its work.

Roast for 30-45 minutes, depending on the size of your pieces and how crispy you like them. Check after 30 minutes—if the edges are getting golden and caramelized but you want them darker, give it another 10-15 minutes.

If using chicken, make sure it reaches an internal temperature of 165°F.

7) Finish with love
When the edges are deeply golden and crispy-chewy, pull the pan from the oven. Immediately hit it with:

A squeeze of fresh lemon juice
Grated Parmesan (if using)
Fresh herbs
Red pepper flakes for heat

Serve immediately while everything is hot and crispy.

Variations (Paint with the Rainbow):

This exact method works with virtually any vegetable. Switch it up. Play the color game.

Put a color wheel on your fridge and pick a different color for each day of the week. Let your kid (or partner) choose the vegetable based on that day's color.

Red (tomatoes, red bell peppers, red onions, beets):
Rich in lycopene and anthocyanins—antioxidants that support heart health and cellular protection.
Orange (carrots, sweet potatoes, butternut squash, orange peppers):
Packed with beta-carotene (vitamin A precursor) for eye health, skin renewal, and immune function.
Yellow (yellow peppers, summer squash, corn):
Contains lutein and zeaxanthin for vision support and vitamin C for immune health.
Green (broccoli, kale, Brussels sprouts, asparagus, zucchini):
Loaded with glucosinolates, folate, and chlorophyll for detoxification, cellular repair, and DNA synthesis.
Blue/Purple (eggplant, purple cabbage, purple potatoes):
Rich in anthocyanins that cross the blood-brain barrier to protect cognitive function and support vascular health.
White/Tan (cauliflower, onions, garlic, mushrooms, parsnips):
Contains allicin, quercetin, and beta-glucans for immune support and anti-inflammatory benefits.

Each color family carries its own package of phytonutrients. When you eat the rainbow, you're giving your cells a complex vocabulary of healing compounds.

The 7-Day Color Wheel (Make It Automatic)

Here's how to make the rainbow game embedded right into your week instead of something you have to remember:

Monday: Red (tomatoes, red peppers, beets, red cabbage)
Tuesday: Orange (carrots, sweet potatoes, butternut squash)
Wednesday: Yellow (yellow peppers, summer squash, corn)
Thursday: Green (broccoli, kale, Brussels sprouts, asparagus)
Friday: Purple/Blue (purple cabbage, eggplant, purple potatoes)
Saturday: White/Tan (cauliflower, onions, garlic, mushrooms)
Sunday: Wild Card (your favorite, or whatever needs to be used up, or a rainbow mix)

Print this out. Put it on your fridge. Let your kids check off each day. When you're standing in the produce aisle overwhelmed, you just look at what day it is and grab that color.

The genius of this system: You're not making a hundred small decisions every week. There is such a thing as decision fatigue. You're following a simple pattern that ensures variety without wearing down your brain. By the end of the week, you could have eaten the entire spectrum of plant compounds your body needs.

Note: You will have to buy food twice a week when eating so much fresh. There are some great apps, like Instacart, that have zero pick up fees for having them put them together (even if zero delivery fee, after the annual $100 fee, there is an additional “service fee” on deliveries that can get up to $30 each grocery run for our family. I think grocery stores do this as well, the big ones like safeway. Also, the Whole Foods on Amazon has a $10 a month program with unlimited free delivery that I just switched to. For our family, Covid changed the game for our online shopping habits, for the better. I also HATE taking kids into the grocery store with all the marketing geared right at their eye level, the kind of stuff outlawed in Europe.

The Knife Skills That Change Everything

Here's a simple truth that transformed my cooking: get yourself one good chef's knife.

Not a whole block set—in fact, throw out that old knife block if you have one. It's probably harboring mold in those slots. Get one quality 8-inch chef's knife for around $80-120, and that will be your best cooking friend for years.

Pair it with a nice wooden cutting board (IKEA has great ones for around $15).

Then watch some YouTube videos on basic knife technique. It can actually be fascinating. The goal is simple: cut everything into similar-sized pieces so they cook evenly.

Many chefs think about taking round things and making them rectangular first—giving yourself a flat, stable surface to work with. Then you can cut everything into uniform matchsticks or cubes.

This isn't about perfection or fancy knife skills. It's about even cooking. When your vegetable pieces are all roughly the same size, everything finishes at the same time. No more burnt edges while the centers are still raw. No more some pieces turning to mush while others stay hard.

The Sur La Table Hustle (Or: How I Learned to Cook on a Broke Engineer's Budget)

When I was right out of college, I had a full-time job—but I also had over $1,000 a month in minimum payments for my student loans. On a monthly paycheck (after taxes, with a great college degree!) of around $2,500, money was tight.

Nobody tells you this before you sign those loan papers: even at 3-6% interest rates, private student loans double or even triple your final out-of-pocket cost. My $100k in loans ended up costing me $250k by the time I paid them off.

I include these numbers so everyone reading this can understand: put that same $500-1k per month before a student enters college—let it compound with tax benefits instead of working against you in interest penalties. This is how the rich stay rich and the poor stay poor—getting stuck in a cycle nobody can break. Just something to think about, America.

So I had a part-time job to make ends meet. But I also wanted to learn how to cook for myself—to stop wasting money on takeout and actually feed myself real food.

I splurged one day on a Sur La Table cooking class after work and was obsessed. I wanted to take more classes, but I couldn't afford $100-300 per class. So I looked around and noticed: each class had a master chef teaching, but also a couple of helpers—the ones setting up plates, handing out coffee, washing dishes, prepping ingredients.

The shifts started right when people got off work. Perfect timing.

So I asked if they were hiring. And I got a job as a little chef's assistant—essentially a glorified dishwasher who got to watch and participate in every demonstration while getting paid.

I learned incredible life skills for the kitchen—knife techniques, timing, how to build flavors, how different cooking methods transform the same ingredient. Those hands-on experiences taught me more about cooking than any cookbook ever could.

Did it immediately change all my eating habits? No. But it taught me how to get some protein and vegetables onto my plate, and those knife skills I will cherish forever.

Sometimes the best learning happens when you're willing to start at the bottom, get your hands dirty, and work your way up while watching people who know what they're doing.

The Sacred Act of Eating (Why Slowing Down Matters)

But here's what really transforms this simple practice: approach eating as meditation, as a sacred act.

Think about your food, how good it is, and calm your body before eating. A prayer or moment of gratitude before a meal really is a smart strategy—one that probably goes back further than we can remember the names of the gods spoken.

To calm your body means you can absorb more nutrients. When you're stressed—even if you're eating incredibly nutrient-dense food—those nutrients don't get absorbed as efficiently because your body is in defense mode, not growth mode. Blood flow shifts away from digestion toward your muscles. Enzyme production decreases. Your gut lining becomes less permeable to nutrients.

This is why eating becomes a meditation, a way of honoring both the food and your body's ability to transform it into energy and health.

Our Family Ritual:

We have a song we learned from a Hanukkah blessing (my husband is partly Jewish), and now we sing it together before meals. It feels important—a moment to transition from the chaos of the day into gratitude and presence.

It turns out saying grace before a meal has scientifically backed benefits. Singing calms our nervous system, and the act of being thankful to something PREVENTS us from stressing out. It is a meditation hack. By saying, or thinking about what we are thankful for, our body sees abundance, rather than scarcity. We ask about a rose and a thorn of the day—something good and something challenging that happened. Just talking about the difficult things and putting a name to feelings helps dissipate them. And it's always good to remember the good in the world, so one day, when things go wrong, we have something beautiful to remember—proof that it's all worth fighting for.

We sometimes light a candle, and nobody can leave the table before the candle burns out. If anyone wants to talk to us, they have to sit at the table. They can leave, but then they cannot interrupt us while we're eating together.

These aren't rigid rules. They're gentle structures that signal safety to our nervous systems: Slow down. You're safe. You're fed. You're loved.

You could have a full plate of wonderful, expensive foods, but if your body is not calm, it cannot absorb all that wonderful food. So take a moment and appreciate the effort someone put in to get that food from the wild, to your plate.

Repetition + Novelty (The Pattern That Sustains)

This is all something you can eat daily, as a regular rotation with built-in variation.

Change up the meat. Change up the vegetable. Maybe triple the recipe and bring it to a potluck.

The idea is to have something repeatable but allowing nuance and novelty—the same structure you can rely on, but with enough variation to stay interesting.

This principle applies to so much more than food. We love repetition and things we can rely on, but we also crave newness. That's why I love the habit of reading at the same time each day, or working out on the same days each week—your body settles into a comfortable rhythm it can trust, but the content itself stays fresh.

Try to incorporate this idea with your partner too. Set aside time to spend together doing something you both love, but get to switch up some part of it without having to think too hard about it. Go out one night a week—maybe a new restaurant or the same favorite, maybe a movie night with a different film each time.

We always want our teddy bear back, our safety blanket, no matter how much we grow. We love to watch nature change throughout the seasons, the light passing through the leaves of trees, waves rolling in and out on the beach—novelty within something expected, just different enough to keep us interested.

Just watch a baby looking up at the leaves of a tree and see how wondrous this can be. Nature gives us seasons, I think, so we can experience this subtle shift, spaced out just enough to keep us on our toes without overwhelming us.

The Simplicity Paradox

We live in a time of unprecedented access to recipes, cooking techniques, exotic ingredients, and kitchen gadgets. You can watch YouTube videos that teach you to fold dumplings like a master chef, order ingredients from across the globe, equip your kitchen with tools that would have amazed professional cooks just a generation ago.

Yet somehow, in the midst of all this culinary abundance, many of us have lost the ability to make simple food taste extraordinary.

Our great-grandmothers didn't have thirty different spice blends or fifteen cooking oils to choose from. They had salt, pepper, maybe a few dried herbs, some good fat, and the wisdom to know how to coax maximum flavor from minimal ingredients.

They understood something we've forgotten: the best cooking isn't about adding complexity—it's about revealing the inherent goodness that already exists in real food.

Watch a master chef work with a perfect tomato, and you'll see this in action. They might slice it, add a pinch of salt, a drizzle of good olive oil, maybe a leaf of basil. That's it. Because they understand that their job isn't to mask the tomato's flavor but to enhance it, to help it become the most perfect version of itself.

Building the Habit (Make This Your Foundation)

When you master this basic roasting technique, you always have a way to turn any vegetable into something delicious.

You're never stuck wondering what to do with that bunch of kale or those Brussels sprouts that looked good at the farmers market. You have a reliable method that works with whatever's available, whatever's affordable, whatever's in season.

The simplicity is what makes it sustainable.

You don't need to remember complex recipes or shop for unusual ingredients. You need:

Vegetables
Good oil
Quality salt
Heat
Time
Attention

That's it.

Make this your default:

When you don't know what to cook → roast vegetables

When you want something healthy but satisfying → roast vegetables

When you need to use up what's in your refrigerator → roast vegetables

When you're too tired to think → roast vegetables

Let this technique become so automatic that you don't need to think about it. Keep good olive oil, sea salt, and whatever vegetables look best on hand. Know that you can always create something nourishing and delicious with just these basic elements.

The Art of Enough

Perhaps the most important lesson from this simple practice is understanding when enough is enough.

Enough oil to coat but not drown.
Enough salt to enhance but not overwhelm.
Enough time to transform but not destroy.

This restraint—this understanding that more isn't always better—applies to much more than cooking. It's a philosophy that can transform your entire relationship with food and health.

In a culture that constantly tells us we need more—more supplements, more superfoods, more complex protocols—this simple roasted vegetable practice whispers a different truth:

Profound satisfaction often comes from simple things, done well, with attention and care.

The Daily Practice

This isn't about perfection—it's about practice.

Some batches will be more successful than others. Some vegetables will cook more evenly than others. Some combinations will be more harmonious than others. That's all part of the learning process.

The goal isn't to become a perfect cook—it's to become a confident one. Someone who understands that simple, real food, prepared with care and attention, is often the most satisfying food of all.

True culinary mastery isn't about complexity—it's about understanding how to reveal the inherent goodness in simple, real ingredients.

When you master the art of roasting vegetables, you have a technique that can adapt to any season, any ingredients, any craving, any level of exhaustion at the end of a long day.

This is how sustainable healthy eating is built: not through complicated rules, but through simple practices that become second nature.

Make it a meditation. Make it a ritual. Make it your baseline.

And watch how this one simple skill transforms not just your meals, but your entire relationship with nourishment.

Bottom line: One pan. Good oil. Quality salt. Whatever vegetables you have. 375-400°F. 30-45 minutes. Done.

This is the meal that will carry you through busy weeks, stressful seasons, and the beautiful chaos of real life.

Simple. Repeatable. Endlessly variable. Deeply satisfying.

That's the art of simplicity.

Part III: BUILDING - Creating New Patterns

Chapter 5: The Art of Simplicity

Roasted Broccoli

This is what the start to every meal should look like. I didn’t learn to cook veggies until into my 30’s. I didn’t realize how easy it was!
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To cook basically any veggie, chop them to the same size (to cook evenly), add some avocado oil, garlic and salt, and voila. Maybe add a piece of healthy protein to the baking dish (or sauté pan stove top). 75% of plate should be veggies. No counting calories needed. Natural foods allow us to express our full versions of health, allow the body to heal itself. Real food is our natural medicine.
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My mom would cook almost everything from scratch, and never allowed us to eat out of a can. She hated the taste of store bought foods. She grew up on a small farm in Croatia, and mostly did not like American convenience foods. But I did not bring those habits to college. I considered “eat your veggies” to be something to roll my eyes at. I was healthy (or so I thought bc I was skinny and never got sick). I could work off any excess weight (obvs genes right? Wrong.) I assumed I was fine. In fact, many people hide their bad health under fit bodies. Maybe they do have amazing genes, maybe they were fed great foods growing up, but nobody can rely on that forever with a terrible diet.
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We need phytonutrients from plants to slow down everyday oxidation reactions that cause aging (and wrinkles). That is unavoidable. But we can slow down the process. Instead, in our American culture, we starve ourselves of veggies, the custodians and little repair guys. Then we add in our toxic foods like sugar and canola oil that speed up those oxidation reactions, causing inflammation and pain. The cheap foods quickly deliver more of those aging free radicals (Tasmanian devils rather than nutrients) inside our cells. The way to hold them back? The phytonutrients in veggies slow down that damage. If we can remove the bad guys, great. But if you have a hard time giving up the addicting bad foods, combat their control every time you eat the bad (“food” or alcohol). Each time you grab a bad food, grab a handful of greens too! That would be an amazing first step. Arm your tummy with greens.

Ingredients

1 large head (or two medium) of broccoli chopped into florets (approx 340g/12oz)
2 tbsp olive oil
½ tsp garlic salt
½ tsp black pepper
1 tbsp lemon juice (the juice from about ½ a lemon)
25 g (1/4 cup) grated parmesan

Instructions

Preheat the oven to 190C/375F (fan).
Line a baking sheet with baking parchment.
Place the broccoli florets in a heap on the baking tray.
1 large head (or two medium) of broccoli
Drizzle over the oil, then sprinkle on the garlic salt, pepper, and lemon juice.
2 tbsp olive oil,1/2 tsp garlic salt,½ tsp black pepper,1 tbsp lemon juice
Toss together with your hands, then arrange the florets in a single layer.
Sprinkle over the parmesan.
25 g (1/4 cup) grated parmesan
Place in the oven to bake for 15-18 minutes, until tender and lightly browned.
Serve as they are, or drizzle on a little hot sauce for a spicy kick!

Recipe 7: Perfect Roasted Vegetables (Any Season)

Real food is simple, and delicious. When you start with ingredients that are alive—vegetables that still carry the energy of the soil they grew in, herbs that release their essential oils when you crush them between your fingers—you don't need to manipulate them much to create something extraordinary. The art is in restraint: good salt that enhances rather than overwhelms, olive oil that carries heat evenly, timing that respects the natural rhythms of transformation. When you master the simple technique of roasting vegetables—that ancient alchemy of heat and time that concentrates flavors and creates new compounds—you have a template that can adapt to any season, any mood, any craving. This is how you build a sustainable relationship with healthy eating: not through complicated rules, but through simple practices that become second nature.

Chapter 7: The Art of Simplicity

Recipe 7: Perfect Roasted Vegetables (Any Season)

"Real food is simple, and delicious."

The Paradox of Abundance

We live in a time of unprecedented access to recipes, cooking techniques, exotic ingredients, and kitchen gadgets. You can watch YouTube videos that teach you to fold dumplings like a master chef, order ingredients from across the globe with the click of a button, and equip your kitchen with tools that would have amazed professional cooks just a generation ago.

Yet somehow, in the midst of all this culinary abundance, many of us have lost the ability to make simple food taste extraordinary.

The art is in restraint: good salt that enhances rather than overwhelms, olive oil that carries heat evenly, timing that respects the natural rhythms of transformation. This isn't about limitation—it's about understanding that the most profound flavors often come from the most basic techniques, executed with attention and care.

The Lost Language of Simplicity

Our great-grandmothers didn't have thirty different spice blends in their pantries or fifteen different cooking oils to choose from. They had salt, pepper, maybe a few dried herbs, some good fat for cooking, and the wisdom to know how to coax maximum flavor from minimal ingredients.

They understood something we've forgotten: that the best cooking isn't about adding complexity—it's about revealing the inherent goodness that already exists in real food.

What I love about this approach is the simple magic of a roasted vegetable: cooked around 375°F, with olive oil and lots of good salt, cooked until the edges get crispy and caramelized. Add some good meat on the plate for a full meal, and the meat juices run onto the veggies for incredible flavor.

The Broccoli Revelation

My husband loves my broccoli dish, and so do many kids. I make it for potlucks, and kids' eyes open wide, saying, "Wow, I do like broccoli!" The secret isn't complicated—it's understanding broccoli as the living thing it once was.

Here's something crucial: the benefits of broccoli can be burned off if you get the pre-cut stuff or rush the cooking process. You have to think of it like the living plant it once was. It takes about 4 minutes once crushed or cut to release its beneficial compounds into itself. If you place it in heat too fast, those compounds burn off. Wait the four minutes to get the benefits.

Add some cloves of garlic—let them get golden and fragrant. The result is blackened, crispy broccoli that even veggie-haters crave. Most people have only ever had raw broccoli or sad, boiled broccoli. But roasted until crispy? You'll want to fill up on it.

The Sacred Act of Eating

But here's what really transforms this simple practice: approach it as meditation, as a sacred act. Think about your food, how good it is, and calm your body before eating. A prayer before a meal really is a smart strategy—one that probably goes back farther than we can remember the names of the gods spoken.

To calm our body means we can absorb more nutrients. If we're stressed, even though we're eating good things, those nutrients don't get absorbed because our body is on lockdown. This is why eating becomes a meditation, a way of honoring both the food and your body's ability to transform it into energy and health.

We have a song we learned from a Hanukkah song (my husband is partly Jewish), and now we sing it together before meals. It feels important. We sometimes light a candle, and nobody can leave before the candle is out. If anyone wants to talk to us, they have to sit at the table. They can leave, but then they cannot talk to us.

We ask about a rose and a thorn of the day—something good and something challenging that happened. Just talking about the difficult things and putting a name to feelings helps dissipate them. And it's always good to remember the good in the world, so one day, when things go wrong, we have something beautiful to remember that it's all worth fighting for.

Recipe 7: Perfect Roasted Vegetables (Any Season)

This isn't just a recipe—it's a technique, a foundation that adapts to whatever's in season, whatever looks good at the market, whatever needs to be used up in your refrigerator.

The Philosophy:

Choose 2-4 pounds of vegetables (any combination)
Use enough good fat to coat lightly (2-4 tablespoons)
Season simply but generously
Respect the timing of different vegetables
Trust the process

Seasonal Inspirations:

Spring Vegetables:

Asparagus spears
Baby potatoes, halved
Spring onions
Fresh peas (add at the end)
Tender herbs: dill, chives, parsley

Summer Vegetables:

Zucchini and summer squash, sliced
Bell peppers, cut in strips
Cherry tomatoes (whole)
Corn kernels
Fresh basil, oregano, thyme

Fall Vegetables:

Brussels sprouts, halved
Sweet potatoes, cubed
Carrots, cut on the diagonal
Red onions, quartered
Sage, rosemary

Winter Vegetables:

Butternut squash, cubed
Cauliflower florets
Parsnips, cut into sticks
Beets, quartered
Hardy herbs: thyme, rosemary

The Foundation (for any season):

2-4 pounds mixed vegetables, cut into similar-sized pieces
3-4 tablespoons good olive oil
1-2 teaspoons sea salt (be generous!)
1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
4-6 cloves garlic, smashed
Optional: fresh herbs

The Simple Transformation:

Preparation as Meditation

Preheat your oven to 375°F. This temperature is perfect for creating good caramelization without burning.

Line a large baking sheet (or two) with parchment paper. Don't crowd the vegetables—they need space for moisture to evaporate and edges to crisp. Overcrowding creates steam, which leads to soggy vegetables instead of beautifully roasted ones.

The Art of the Cut

Cut your vegetables into pieces that are roughly the same size. This ensures everything cooks evenly. Consider the natural cooking times of different vegetables—dense, hard vegetables like carrots take longer than softer ones like zucchini.

For broccoli specifically: cut it fresh, let it sit for 4 minutes to activate its beneficial compounds, then proceed with roasting.

The Sacred Coating

Place your cut vegetables in a large bowl. Drizzle with olive oil—enough to lightly coat everything when tossed. Add salt generously and freshly ground pepper. The salt will help draw out moisture and concentrate flavors.

Add smashed garlic cloves—let them get golden and fragrant during roasting.

Toss everything together with your hands. Feel the vegetables, notice their textures, the way the oil distributes. This physical connection with your ingredients is part of the meditation of cooking.

The Patience of Roasting

Spread vegetables in a single layer on your prepared baking sheet. Roast for 25-45 minutes, depending on the vegetables used.

You'll know they're ready when the edges are golden brown and caramelized, and a fork pierces them easily but they still hold their shape. The kitchen will smell incredible—sweet, nutty, deeply satisfying.

The Intelligence of All Things

Here's an epiphany I had one day (possibly influenced by watching "My Octopus Teacher"): all things have intelligence. There is intelligence in all living things, and we are all as efficient as we need to be to survive.

For people who avoid meat to save animals—all food comes from a living thing. Why can't grass have a soul? All trees in a forest share the same DNA, with mother trees spreading care, pest control, nutrients, and signals through fungi in the ground.

Fungi were the oldest fossils known, from about 1 billion years ago. Trees came next, around 800 million years, then animals around 600 million years ago. The mushrooms were once large and above ground, then went below when everything went extinct but them. They can deactivate radioactive waste. They turn dead things to life through decomposition. We need them.

A plant breathes out what we breathe in, and vice versa. We all need one another. If we didn't have mushrooms, nothing would ever decay and come back full circle. A single spoonful of good soil has miles of mycelium networks.

We cannot digest grass, but chickens can. When we eat chickens, we eat what the chickens absorbed and transformed from the grass. We need one another.

The Sacred Balance

We need to eat animals, but they should be sustainably fed and live in areas where they get to walk around. The earth needs this too. If we stopped eating animals, we would stop breeding them, and the earth would be at a loss.

Animals used to be as diverse as the various lands—Britain has a book on 60 breeds of sheep that thrive on various landscapes. But now we breed the most docile cows, sheep, and chickens, and pump them with chemicals on factory farms. What should be fertilizer and great for the land becomes hazardous waste because it's too concentrated and filled with antibiotics and toxins.

We can eat animals in a respectful way. We just weren't meant to try to have a larger population every generation—the way our economy is set up. If we continue that path, we really would need Mars to continue our species, essentially becoming a cancer on this earth that cannot control or feed itself.

The Vegetable Wisdom

Vegetables are incredible on their own, and I love them as a foodie because I can eat as many as I want. I love the crunch, the variety, the way different cooking methods reveal different flavors.

Most people have only ever had raw vegetables or boiled-to-death vegetables. But roasted until the edges are caramelized and crispy? That's when vegetables become irresistible. I've seen kids who "hate vegetables" devour orange-glazed Brussels sprouts sprinkled with bacon at restaurants.

Important cooking wisdom:

If you boil vegetables, drink the cooking water to get their benefits—use it in soup or as a savory tea
Steaming is great and easy for kids to eat—again, save and drink the liquid
Bell peppers have more vitamin C than oranges, but cooking destroys it while creating other benefits
Your body actually absorbs vitamin C better through the skin than through the mouth
Celery isn't empty calories—no green vegetable is. They all have carbohydrates, the kind you want as many of as you can get

The Quality Foundation: Salt and Fat

I learned that the kind of salt matters enormously. If it tastes gross on its own—like the salt in canned tomato sauce—it will not taste good in your dish. This was a revelation that changed everything about my cooking.

Get good, full-fat, grass-fed butter without salt added, so you can control the salt yourself. And invest in quality mineral salts—they are not all created equal. Certain salts actually help you retain minerals in your cells properly, while the wrong kind can make you hold water in ways that leave you feeling bloated rather than hydrated.

If you want to look luminous and drink a lot of water, you also want great kinds of salt—the sea salt mineral kind that works with your body's natural hydration systems rather than against them.

Think of salt like you think of any other ingredient: quality matters. Cheap table salt is to real sea salt what margarine is to grass-fed butter—technically they serve similar functions, but the effects on your body are completely different.

Learn to hold it correctly and watch YouTube videos on proper knife technique. Learn to cut vegetables in a way that gets them all the same size. Try to get a flat surface on whatever you're cutting, then cut into squares or matchsticks for the most consistent cooking.

When you cut vegetables uniformly, they cook evenly. No more burnt edges while the centers are still raw, no more some pieces turning to mush while others stay hard. It's one of those simple skills that transforms everything you cook.

The Art of the Cut

There's also an art to cutting vegetables that makes all the difference in how they cook. Here's a simple trick that changed my cooking game: get just one good chef's knife for around $100. Not the whole block of knives—just start with one quality knife and add more as you need them.

When I came out of college, I had a ton of student debt and wasn't making much, even as an engineer. I wanted to learn to cook for myself, so I took a local class at Sur La Table. I noticed the person working next to the private chef was taking part in all the demonstrations and getting paid! Essentially a glorified dishwasher, but benefiting from $100 to $300 cooking classes per day while earning money.

So I signed up to do the work and got paid to learn to cook in all kinds of classes. I loved it, and I'd suggest it to anyone. You can learn knife skills, cooking techniques, and food knowledge while earning money instead of spending it.

Sometimes the best learning happens when you're willing to start at the bottom and work your way up. Those hands-on experiences taught me more about cooking than any cookbook ever could.

This restraint—this understanding that more isn't always better—applies to much more than cooking. It's a philosophy that can transform your entire relationship with food and health.

Make this your foundation. When you don't know what to cook, roast vegetables. When you want something healthy but satisfying, roast vegetables. When you need to use up what's in your refrigerator, roast vegetables.

Let this simple technique become so automatic that you don't need to think about it. Keep good olive oil, sea salt, and whatever vegetables look best on hand. Know that you can always create something nourishing and delicious with just these basic elements.

The Art of Enough

Perhaps the most important lesson from this simple recipe is understanding when enough is enough. Enough oil to coat but not drown. Enough salt to enhance but not overwhelm. Enough time to transform but not destroy.

This is how you build a sustainable relationship with healthy eating: not through complicated rules or exotic superfoods, but through simple practices that become second nature.

The simplicity is what makes it sustainable. You don't need to remember complex recipes or shop for unusual ingredients. You need vegetables, good oil, salt, heat, time, and reverence. That's it.

When you approach this simple practice with attention and gratitude—when you make it a meditation rather than just a task—you transform not just the vegetables, but your entire relationship with nourishment.

This is how sustainable healthy eating is built: not through complicated rules, but through simple practices that honor both the intelligence of the food and the wisdom of your body to transform it into health, energy, and joy.

Chapter 7: The Art of Simplicity

Recipe 7: Perfect Roasted Vegetables (Any Season)

The Paradox of Abundance

We live in a time of unprecedented access to recipes, cooking techniques, exotic ingredients, and kitchen gadgets. You can watch YouTube videos that teach you to fold dumplings like a master chef, order ingredients from across the globe with the click of a button, and equip your kitchen with tools that would have amazed professional cooks just a generation ago.

Yet somehow, in the midst of all this culinary abundance, many of us have lost the ability to make simple food taste extraordinary.

The Lost Language of Simplicity

They understood something we've forgotten: that the best cooking isn't about adding complexity—it's about revealing the inherent goodness that already exists in real food.

Somewhere along the way, we got convinced that cooking had to be complicated to be good. We started believing that meals needed multiple courses, exotic ingredients, and complex techniques to be worthy of our time. We began to think that simple food was somehow inferior food.

But watch a master chef work with a perfect tomato, and you'll see the opposite in action. They might slice it, add a pinch of salt, a drizzle of good olive oil, maybe a leaf of basil. That's it. Because they understand that their job isn't to mask the tomato's flavor but to enhance it, to help it become the most perfect version of itself.

The Alchemy of Heat and Time

When you master the simple technique of roasting vegetables—that ancient alchemy of heat and time that concentrates flavors and creates new compounds—you have a template that can adapt to any season, any mood, any craving.

Roasting is one of humanity's oldest cooking methods, discovered when someone dropped food near a fire and realized that controlled heat could transform raw ingredients into something more delicious, more digestible, more satisfying than the sum of their parts.

What happens during roasting is actually quite magical from a chemical perspective. The dry heat triggers something called the Maillard reaction—a complex series of chemical reactions between amino acids and sugars that creates hundreds of new flavor compounds. This is what gives roasted foods their deep, complex tastes and golden-brown colors.

At the same time, the heat breaks down cell walls, concentrating flavors and making nutrients more available. Water evaporates, intensifying the remaining flavors. Natural sugars caramelize, creating sweetness and depth.

All of this happens automatically, without any effort from you, when you simply apply the right amount of heat for the right amount of time.

Recipe 7: Perfect Roasted Vegetables (Any Season)

This isn't just a recipe—it's a technique, a template, a foundation that you can adapt endlessly based on what's available, what's in season, and what sounds good to you today.

The Philosophy

Choose 2-4 pounds of vegetables (any combination)
Use enough good fat to coat lightly (2-4 tablespoons)
Season simply but generously
Respect the timing of different vegetables
Trust the process

Spring Vegetables

Asparagus spears
Baby potatoes, halved
Spring onions
Fresh peas (add at the end)
Tender herbs: dill, chives, parsley

Summer Vegetables

Zucchini and summer squash, sliced
Bell peppers, cut in strips
Cherry tomatoes (whole)
Corn kernels
Fresh basil, oregano, thyme

Fall Vegetables

Brussels sprouts, halved
Sweet potatoes, cubed
Carrots, cut on the diagonal
Red onions, quartered
Sage, rosemary

Winter Vegetables

Butternut squash, cubed
Cauliflower florets
Parsnips, cut into sticks
Beets, quartered
Hardy herbs: thyme, rosemary

The Foundation (for any season)

2-4 pounds mixed vegetables, cut into similar-sized pieces
3-4 tablespoons good olive oil
1-2 teaspoons sea salt
1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
Optional: 2-3 cloves garlic, smashed
Optional: fresh herbs

The Simple Transformation

Preparation as Meditation Preheat your oven to 425°F. This temperature is hot enough to create good caramelization but not so hot that the outsides burn before the insides cook through.

Line a large baking sheet (or two) with parchment paper. Don't crowd the vegetables—they need space for the moisture to evaporate and the edges to crisp. Overcrowding creates steam, which leads to soggy vegetables instead of beautifully roasted ones.

The Art of the Cut Cut your vegetables into pieces that are roughly the same size. This isn't about perfection—it's about ensuring that everything cooks evenly. A two-inch piece of sweet potato will take much longer to cook than a half-inch piece, so uniformity matters more than beauty.

Consider the natural cooking times of different vegetables. Dense, hard vegetables like carrots and potatoes take longer than softer ones like zucchini or bell peppers. You can either cut the harder vegetables smaller, add them to the pan first, or simply accept that some will be more tender than others.

The Sacred Coating Place your cut vegetables in a large bowl. Drizzle with olive oil—enough to lightly coat everything when tossed, but not so much that they're swimming in oil. You want them glistening, not drenched.

Add salt and pepper generously. The salt will help draw out moisture and concentrate flavors. Don't be timid—vegetables can handle more seasoning than you think.

Toss everything together with your hands. Feel the vegetables, notice their textures, their weight, the way the oil distributes. This physical connection with your ingredients is part of the meditation of cooking.

The Patience of Roasting Spread the vegetables in a single layer on your prepared baking sheet. If some pieces are touching, that's fine, but avoid piling them on top of each other.

Slide the pan into the oven and resist the urge to check on them too often. Let the heat do its work. Depending on the size and type of vegetables, they'll need 25-45 minutes.

After about 20 minutes, you can gently stir or flip them to ensure even browning, but this isn't strictly necessary if they're cut uniformly.

The Recognition of Doneness You'll know they're ready when the edges are golden brown and slightly caramelized, and a fork pierces them easily but they still hold their shape. The kitchen will smell incredible—sweet, nutty, deeply satisfying.

If you're adding tender herbs like basil or parsley, toss them with the vegetables in the last 5 minutes of cooking, or add them fresh after the vegetables come out of the oven.

The Universal Template

This basic technique works with virtually any vegetable, but understanding a few principles will help you adapt it successfully:

Dense vegetables (root vegetables, winter squash, Brussels sprouts) need longer cooking times and higher heat. Cut them smaller or give them a head start.

Tender vegetables (zucchini, bell peppers, asparagus) cook quickly and can become mushy if overdone. Add them later or cut them larger.

Watery vegetables (tomatoes, mushrooms, eggplant) release moisture as they cook. Give them extra space and don't worry if they seem to shrink dramatically.

Delicate herbs (basil, parsley, cilantro) should be added at the end to preserve their bright flavors and colors.

Hardy herbs (rosemary, thyme, sage) can withstand the full cooking time and actually benefit from the concentrated heat.

The Seasonal Dance

This recipe becomes a way of connecting with the natural rhythms of the year. In spring, you're celebrating the tender, delicate flavors of the first vegetables emerging from winter's dormancy. In summer, you're capturing the abundance and vibrant colors of peak growing season. In fall, you're concentrating the hearty, grounding flavors that will sustain you through winter. In winter, you're drawing sweetness and comfort from vegetables that stored their energy through the cold months.

Each season brings its own palette of flavors, colors, and textures. Learning to work with what's naturally available when it's available connects you to the larger rhythms of the earth and ensures that you're eating foods at their peak nutritional value and flavor.

Building the Habit

This is how you build a sustainable relationship with healthy eating: not through complicated rules or exotic superfoods, but through simple practices that become second nature.

When you master this basic roasting technique, you always have a way to turn any vegetable into something delicious. You're never stuck wondering what to do with that bunch of kale or those Brussels sprouts that looked good at the farmers market. You have a reliable method that works with whatever's available, whatever's affordable, whatever's in season.

The simplicity is what makes it sustainable. You don't need to remember complex recipes or shop for unusual ingredients. You need vegetables, good oil, salt, heat, and time. That's it.

The Ripple Effects

As you make this simple practice a regular part of your cooking routine, several things happen:

Your palate develops an appreciation for the natural flavors of vegetables rather than the artificial flavors of processed foods.

Your confidence grows in the kitchen as you learn to trust the process and adapt based on what you observe.

Your relationship with food becomes more intuitive as you learn to cook by sight, smell, and taste rather than rigid adherence to recipes.

Your grocery shopping becomes easier because you know you can make anything delicious with this basic technique.

Your meal planning becomes more flexible because you can adapt to what's fresh, what's on sale, or what you have on hand.

The Art of Enough

Perhaps the most important lesson from this simple recipe is the art of knowing when enough is enough. Enough oil to coat but not drown. Enough salt to enhance but not overwhelm. Enough time to transform but not destroy.

This restraint—this understanding that more isn't always better—applies to much more than cooking. It's a philosophy that can transform your entire relationship with food and health.

In a culture that constantly tells us we need more—more supplements, more superfoods, more complex protocols—this simple roasted vegetable recipe whispers a different truth: that profound satisfaction often comes from simple things, done well, with attention and care.

The Daily Practice

This isn't about perfection—it's about practice. Some batches will be more successful than others. Some vegetables will cook more evenly than others. Some combinations will be more harmonious than others. That's all part of the learning process.

The goal isn't to become a perfect cook—it's to become a confident one, someone who understands that simple, real food, prepared with care and attention, is often the most satisfying food of all.

True culinary mastery isn't about complexity—it's about understanding how to reveal the inherent goodness in simple, real ingredients. When you master the art of roasting vegetables, you have a technique that can adapt to any season, any ingredients, any craving. This is how sustainable healthy eating is built: not through complicated rules, but through simple practices that become second nature.